Transcripts: Chat with Kink Educator and Practitioner, Serene

The plan was to chat with Serene via a video Google+ Hangout.

Unfortunately, we experienced some technical difficulties.

But not being the type of folks to give up, we moved the conversation over to Twitter. (+1 for technology!)

Below is the interview. Enjoy and share with others!

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin Urgh! I can’t get back in to hangout. Twitter chat?

Serenesin: @haveAwonderful I’m here!

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin great! I have a few questions …

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin so what’s the title of your book & when can we expect to see it on shelves? #kink

Serenesin: @haveAwonderful Ask away

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin so what’s the title of your book & when can we expect to see it on shelves? #kink

Serenesin: Thanks for asking! The book is called “All My Heroes Were Ho’s” and will be out in ebook form at the end of the May. Print by mid June.

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin I love the title! What will it cover? #kink #coach

Serenesin: It’s a collection of the things I’ve learned from the scenes in the dungeon. Lots of my private blogs and stories

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin will you define #kink for us?

Serenesin: Kink is simply defined as an alternative to straight. We understand straight, gay, lesbian etc. as alternative love between partners…

Serenesin: We have a saying in the kink community – you “sometimes have to be bound to be free.” Kink allows you to explore that inner freedom.

*Serenesin: Live twitter chat with the date coach audience, Wow technology.*

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin what is a #kink #coach?

Serenesin: My job is to answer your questions primarily. We all them, from is this normal? Yes it is. To questions about how to ‘come out’

Serenesin: I do a lot of phone coaching with people calling with the questions they need to ask and deserve answers. Most porn cannot answer

Serenesin: I also help women discover and get comfortable with their dominant personality and desire to be in control.

Serenesin: I coach couples from my experience of living in a Female Lead Marriage, and showing couples it can be done.

Serenesin: My hope is to stir a revolution among men.

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin before I forget where can people find you online & get the book? #kink #coach

Serenesin: You can find me and my new book “All My Heroes Were Ho’s” at http://www.serenesin.com

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin I have to ask: as a black woman doing what you do, are there challenges?

Serenesin: @haveAwonderful Actually the opposite, many more advantages. Like there are 10 submissive men per every Black Female Dominant.

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin what is a Female Lead Marriage?

Serenesin: Female Lead Relationships or FLR’s are just that. The Female is Head of Household or as I use the old roman word- Domina

Serenesin: We are all gifted in either leading or following, I find it does not matter the gender.

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin you mentioned “dungeon” please explain what & where.

Serenesin: A dungeon in the common use of the term today among kinksters is a place designated for intimate public erotic play. It could be your garage

Serenesin: Or your kitchen or bedroom, or the VA Hall down the street.

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin …just 3 questions left, if you don’t mind…

Serenesin: @haveAwonderful Please!

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin what are some common misconceptions about BDSM?

Serenesin: @haveAwonderful Common misconceptions about BDSM 1: It’s all about the pain. False: Remember people do something because it feels good.

Serenesin: We like to think of ourselves as extreme athletes.

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin what about you line of toys?

Serenesin: I started a line of washable vampire gloves for creating a tingling sensation on the skin. They are found at http://www.vampiregloves.info

Serenesin: Using the vampire gloves you can create pleasurable sensations with the gentlest of touch or not…

Serenesin: Remember when you had a loose tooth?

Serenesin: And you would start to wiggle it constantly. You did that because you stimulated endorphins.

Serenesin: Kinky people stimulate natural endorphins, like athletes enjoy adrenaline. We do without drugs and enjoy much longer.

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin ah, I hate that our video chat didn’t go as planned – your such a great person to chat with & FUNNY! anywho, final question …

Serenesin: Thank you for having me!

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin if someone has an interest in #kink are there any good docs or books to start with (b4 coming to you:)?

Serenesin: I have a recommended reading list on my website: http://www.serenesin.com/free-stuff.html

Serenesin: Come to your coach first!

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin the joke used to be “there’s an app for that” now it’s “there’s a coach for that!”

Serenesin: That’s a good one and so true these days!

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin thank you SO very much for sharing! I can’t wait to meet you IRL!

Serenesin: @haveAwonderful Yes, so looking forward to it! Sorry the hangout didn’t work out. We’ll conquer technology another day.

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin you need an app to. Something like: my partner likes —. What should I use?

Serenesin: @haveAwonderful Ooh I like that!

haveAwonderful: @Serenesin indeed. haveAwonderful night!

Serenesin: @haveAwonderful You too!